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Paris Gap-Year Stay Review: "I Wanted to Make My Thoughts and Life More Colorful."

#Life became more colorful; formation of values #Discovered hobbies; connection with others #Took time to reflect on myself

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    The gap year gave me, above all, plenty of time to think and helped me live energetically again.The 10 weeks in Paris were truly like a dream and an invaluable experience I wouldn''t trade for anything.I am grateful to the gap year program and the guesthouse owner for giving me this opportunity.

     

    - Paris Gap Year Stay / Kang Hee-yeon — gap-year family gapper / 8-week gap year

     

     

     

    # I had always lived life impatiently, and I felt empty as if nothing had really remained for me.

     

      

     

     

    I didn''t board the plane to Paris to gain anything specific. At some point, the rules of a boxed-in life began to feel monotonous,I wanted to make my thoughts and life more colorful. Above all, I felt I needed my own set of values and philosophy for living. 

    So I became interested in taking a gap year and decided to spend time for myself before graduating.

    As graduation approached, I wanted to give myself time, so I applied.I had always lived life impatiently, and I felt empty as if nothing had really remained for me.During the gap year I wanted to envision my future, reflect on and enjoy different values in life, and feel richer emotions.

    My gap-year goal was to find my own hobby and, while enjoying it,learn how to connect with others.



    # Each one delivered a fresh jolt of excitement and fun.

     

     

     

     

    The 10 weeks in Paris were spent in a city where I could truly focus on myself, so I had ample time to think about how I want to live going forward. First of all, Paris was an incredible place to enjoy culture.Even if I visited exhibitions every day, there were still many more to see, and each one delivered a fresh thrill and pleasure.

    To see exhibitions in Paris, I first studied each artist, chose two works I liked the most and thought about why I liked them, and I appreciated being able to apply what I learned from the works and the artists'' lives to my own.

    A particularly memorable artist wasToulouse-LautrecI had liked him before, but as I studied his life and more of his works, I began to understand him better and grew to like him more. He was born into an aristocratic family in southern France but became disabled due to an accident in childhood.

    Although he came from an aristocratic background, he didn''t paint only beautiful things; he made prostitutes the subjects of his paintings, looking warmly on their tragic lives and expressing that on canvas. He showed that art is not something only a certain class can enjoy — anyone can create and enjoy art — which made me resolve to practice breaking my own preconceptions.

    Also, by looking at contemporary art I was able to learn how to think differently from others — in other words, how to differentiate myself.

     

     

     

    # I was lucky to work as staff in a place where I could meet various people, like at a Korean guesthouse.


     


     

    Through the gap year I met many different people and was glad to become good friends with them. Nari (unnie), Jinkyung, Euli, Yuran, and Minjeong, who worked with me as staff, all helped me learn a lot while we lived together. The memories I made with them will be unforgettable.

    Among them, Yuran, who was a tour staff member, was two years younger than me but more mature and thoughtful. Whenever I had worries she listened to mine and empathized as if they were her own. Because of Yuran''s kind attitude, other guests were satisfied with the tours and praised her a lot. Yuran created a comfortable atmosphere that let people rest easily at the guesthouse; she was truly a great staff member. I felt rewarded to have met someone I want to keep in touch with even after returning to Korea.

    AndI was fortunate to work as a staff member in a space like a Korean guesthouse where I could meet many different people.There were people of various ages and professions, so having interesting conversations on a new topic every day will be remembered as a precious experience.

    The people I met there gave me a lot of courage when I was tired of life and generously shared life advice.Some people drew my portrait, and others wrote poems thinking of me. I received so much love from the guests that it felt like a dream.

    Also, at first I made many mistakes while learning the staff role and was often scolded, but thanks to the owner and the auntie who always took care of me and encouraged me until the end, I was able to get through the ten weeks well. Although the owner seemed blunt at first glance, after experiencing him I felt he cared about all the staff and genuinely worried about us. I want to express my thanks to both of them once again.


    Things I liked
    I minored in French, and I was really happy to have many opportunities to use French during my gap year. I met international students studying French and practiced with them, and I bought books written in French, which helped me grow my affection for the language.

    Moments that moved me
    When I got lost in France, I was grateful to the elderly woman who listened to my clumsy French and showed me the way. And on the flight returning to Paris from Spain, I was thankful to the lovely woman who sat by the window and took photos of the Paris night view for me since I was sitting in the aisle.I was moved and thought that there are many kind people in France.

    Lessons learned
    I learned that relationships with the people around you are important no matter where you are. Realizing that when I''m with people who suit me, any place can look beautiful regardless of where it is, I thought I should treat those around me well.

    Seeing that even Paris, which seemed so beautiful, can be judged differently depending on my mood,I learned that my happiness wasn''t simply because of the city of Paris, but because of the people I met there.

    Realizations
    I realized that when studying a foreign language it''s important to actually speak sentences in that language directly to locals. Once a sentence has come out of your mouth like that, it has the advantage of not being easily forgotten.



    #My personal gap year tips


    (Language)
    It''s good to study enough to be able to say greetings and read the alphabet.

    (Accommodation)
    To keep the accommodation clean, I recommend setting a cleaning rota and assigning cleaning duties.

    (Meals)
    Breakfast and dinner are provided, so you can eat together, and for lunch you can buy pizza or kebab near the accommodation.

    (Packing)
    For clothing, you''ll end up buying a lot locally, so you don''t need to bring too much.

    (Tip)
    Doing a gap year stay in Paris doesn''t mean the program has prepared a home for me in Paris. It''s better to come knowing that you''ll have to pay the necessary costs to live in the city.

    Participants work as staff in guesthouses, but remember these are businesses too; I want to remind you to respect your working hours and avoid causing trouble.


    #My own Paris travel spots


    During the 10 weeks I spent in Paris, the places I liked most were the Mitterrand Library and the Simone de Beauvoir Bridge in front of it. The Mitterrand Library is composed of four large buildings, each designed to look like a book opened at a 90-degree angle.It is said that the four buildings each house books on topics that France considers important: time, numbers, law, and literature.

    The Simone de Beauvoir Bridge in front of it was the last bridge built on the Seine and was made for people to walk across. From the side, the bridge resembles the shape of a human eye. I felt it was a place where you can see many young people in Paris, and the night view was very impressive.

    You can get there by exiting at Quai de la Gare station on Paris Metro Line 6 and walking about 100 meters.

    After the gap year schedule, I traveled to Barcelona, Spain. I highly recommend the Gaudí tour I took there.



    #The 10 weeks in Paris felt like a dream and were an invaluable experience I wouldn''t trade for anything.



    I had always thought about wanting to live in Paris. I wanted to learn the French way of taking life easy and was curious about how French people approach life. Before participating in the gap year program, I thought that because France is a country with its own culture, the French would have their own distinct atmosphere, butafter participating in the gap year, I realized that they are people just like us.

    I thought that while any environment can have an influence, human universals are the same. Although there may be some differences in values compared to Koreans, I recognized the same images of fathers and mothers trying to make a living,young people endlessly worrying about their future as they jump into the job market with dreams, and cheerful, bright children — I learned that it''s all the same human life.

    Before I seriously prepared for employment, I had many worries when choosing to take a gap year before graduation. I wondered whether it was irresponsible to go on a gap year in my situation, whether I would be wasting time, or whether I would fall behind others, and so on. With all those complicated thoughts, I left for my gap year.

    But looking back now, it seems there was no reason to worry. It was truly an opportunity and a learning experience I wouldn''t trade for anything.Ten weeks in another country — in this case Paris, France — were like a gem.

    As time passes and I look back on my life, it will shine more brightly than ever. Free from rules or others'' gazes, I thought freely, planned as I wished, and spent my time, learning and realizing many things.In the end, I realized that everything originates from my choices and that how I interpret things is important.

    The gap year gave me above all a lot of time to think and helped me live energetically again.The 10 weeks in Paris felt like a dream and were an invaluable experience I wouldn''t trade for anything.I am grateful to the gap year program and the guesthouse owner for providing this opportunity.

    My gap year is

    Experience★★★★★
    It''s an opportunity to take a step back and look at my life from a distance.

    Learning★★★★★
    Before taking my first step into society, I learned how to communicate with people and how to use my time well.

    Environment★★★★
    Generally satisfied; it would be better if the accommodation used by the staff were warmer.

    Safety★★★★★
    During my gap year there were Christmas and New Year; the owner warned us in advance about the risk of terrorism, so there was nothing dangerous.

    Leisure★★★★★
    If you''re proactive, you can fully enjoy your free time.



     

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